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The Power of Love and Support:

Redefining Our Culture's Approach to Empathy

Philipose Vaidyar

In our culture, there is a paradox when it comes to demonstrating love and appreciation. While people are alive and in need, they often receive minimal attention and support. Hardly anyone among those who visit offers a single flower or some encouraging words. However, once they pass away, there is a sudden outpouring of flowers and wreaths, as if to compensate for the lack of care during their life. This phenomenon raises a crucial question about the way we express affection. Shouldn't we show love and appreciation to the living, rather than waiting until it's too late?

Even if we don't offer a flower or a word of encouragement and support, let us refrain from adding thorns to their lives with our words and deeds. It is disheartening to witness some individuals passing judgment and spreading gossip without verifying the facts or considering the person's perspective. What right do we have to tarnish someone's reputation without knowing the truth? Instead, let us choose to walk with such people, offering empathy and understanding.

Amidst the negativity, there may be silent souls who stand by those going through difficulties, providing unwavering support and helping them overcome their challenges. These compassionate individuals demonstrate the power of genuine care and prove that we can make a positive difference in someone's life by offering a listening ear and a helping hand. Let us be inspired by their actions and strive to be more compassionate, understanding, and supportive to those around us, breaking free from the paradox of love and appreciation and fostering a culture of kindness and warmth.

We must shift our mindset and behavior to break free from this paradox. It is crucial to recognize the importance of showing love and kindness to those who are still with us. Simple gestures, such as offering a flower or a word of encouragement, or even participating in paying their bills or pending payments, can make a profound impact on someone facing hardships. By actively reaching out and offering support, we can bridge the gap between the love expressed in life and that shown after death, creating a more caring and compassionate society.

Moreover, we must cultivate a culture of openness and support when it comes to discussing vulnerabilities and challenges. By eliminating the stigma around such issues, we can create a more empathetic and connected society.

In conclusion, the paradox of love and appreciation in our culture reminds us of the need to redefine our approach to empathy. Let's not wait until it's too late to show love and support. Instead, let us actively demonstrate affection and appreciation to the living, walking alongside them in their life journey. By doing so, we can build a more compassionate society where gestures of love are not reserved for the deceased but generously offered to the living.

“Love should be shown without pretending. Hate evil, and hold on to what is good. Love each other like the members of your family. Be the best at showing honor to each other. Don’t hesitate to be enthusiastic—be on fire in the Spirit as you serve the Lord! Be happy in your hope, stand your ground when you’re in trouble, and devote yourselves to prayer. Contribute to the needs of God’s people, and welcome strangers into your home. Bless people who harass you—bless and don’t curse them. Be happy with those who are happy, and cry with those who are crying. Consider everyone as equal, and don’t think that you’re better than anyone else. Instead, associate with people who have no status. Don’t think that you’re so smart. Don’t pay back anyone for their evil actions with evil actions, but show respect for what everyone else believes is good. If possible, to the best of your ability, live at peace with all people. Don’t try to get revenge for yourselves, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath. It is written, “Revenge belongs to me; I will pay it back, says the Lord”. Instead, “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink. By doing this, you will pile burning coals of fire upon his head”. Don’t be defeated by evil, but defeat evil with good". Romans 12:9-21

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