Saturday, March 8, 2025

Second of Third Life < FOUR >


The Cost of Calling

Pat returned, humbled, accepting the church’s decision. He bowed before his bishop, took his ordination vows with quiet resolve, and embraced a new path. His life took an unexpected turn, but he chose to walk it faithfully. He married—not Ann, but a woman chosen for him—stepping into a life of ministry, duty, and sacrifice.

His academic journey had begun with a Bachelor of Science in South India. Though drawn to science, his conviction led him to theological studies, where he earned a Master of Divinity. Immersed in scripture, doctrine, and pastoral care, he deepened his understanding of faith and service. With a growing vision for leadership, he later pursued a Master of Public Administration, equipping himself with governance and community service skills. A student visa opened doors for further theological studies overseas, where he earned a Th. M, engaging in thought-provoking discussions on faith’s role in an evolving world. With an increasing passion for ethics and justice, he completed a Ph D in his field, solidifying his place as both a scholar and church leader.

Ministry flourished alongside academia. He moved from rector to bishop, mentoring clergy, guiding laity, and shaping church policies. Within the council of bishops, he found both mentors and friends—leaders who carried the weight of the church with wisdom and grace. He served alongside distinguished lady bishops, their presence a testament to the evolving inclusivity of the church. The corridors of power were filled with discussion, strategy, and the ever-present question of how to shepherd a diverse, changing flock.

Yet, amid respect and recognition, his personal life carried its own burdens. His children grew up in foreign lands, excelling academically, yet often feeling the weight of their father’s calling. They navigated both his expectations and the culture they called home. But ministry demanded much, and fatherhood became a delicate balance between presence and absence.

Then life shifted. Decades of ministry, leadership, and academic achievement could not hold his marriage together. The cracks that had formed over the years deepened into gaps. One day, his wife left. Under the laws of the church and the land, his bishopric was revoked. The robe that once adorned him with honour now weighed him down with loss. His status was gone, and he could no longer remain in the country he had served for so many years.

So he left.

But where does a man go when the world he built is no longer his own?

Pat returned to India—not to the bustling city of his youth but to a quiet, remote town where no one questioned his past. Here, he could exist without expectation, away from the weight of his former identity. The return was not easy. Years abroad had changed him, yet now he was a stranger in both worlds—the one he had left behind and the one he had once called home. His movements were discreet, his presence largely unnoticed. Yet, for those who knew him, whispers followed. A former bishop, now just another man in a small town. What had brought him back? What was left for him here?

Meanwhile, in another part of the country, Ann’s life had taken its own course. She had married, built a family, and shouldered the weight of responsibility. She had cared for a husband whose long illness drained her strength until, one day, he slipped away. His death left her alone, but not broken. Time had not spared her, but it had forged resilience.

Then, across the miles, a message reached her: Pat is back.

A simple statement, yet a ripple in still waters.

How had he returned? And, more importantly, why now? Was it a failure or unfinished business? Could someone who had vanished from her world so completely reappear as if time had not passed? But almost four decades had gone by. Curious, hesitant, she responded. A simple message. A familiar voice. And suddenly, the past came rushing in like a wave that had been waiting decades to crash ashore.

Days turned into weeks of conversations. They were no longer the young dreamers from the seminary, but something deeper still connected them. They spoke of the years gone by, the choices made, the solitary roads walked. And then, the unspoken question emerged:

Could they still live the life they once dreamed of?

Not as the same people, not with the same innocence, but as two souls finding their way back to the beginning.

Their reunion did not go unnoticed. Allegations surfaced, whispers turned into questions, and quiet concerns became public discussions. Had Pat crossed a line? Was this right in God’s eyes—or just two lonely souls seeking comfort in the twilight of their years?

For a while, Pat withdrew. His once-frequent updates fell silent. But deeper questions remained:

Are marriages truly made in heaven, or are they shaped by human decisions? If love fades, does that mean the marriage was never divine? Does God allow divorce and remarriage? What about those who find love again—not in rebellion, but in redemption?

Is living together without marriage an alternative today, or does it stand outside God’s design? Are modern challenges to marriage greater than before, or has humanity drifted further from the truth?

And most importantly, where does God’s will stand in love, loss, and second chances?

·  The journey is not over yet without a Biblical Reflection

https://pvarticles.blogspot.com/2025/03/second-or-third-life-biblical.html

Disclaimer: This story is inspired by real-life experiences but incorporates very few imaginative elements for storytelling purposes. No actual names, locations, or specific details have been used to protect privacy. Any resemblance to actual persons or events is purely coincidental beyond the intended inspiration. 

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