A Splendid Wedding: A Paradox of Tradition and Evangelism

 

Philipose Vaidyar

We recently attended a splendid wedding at a beautiful location in Central Kerala. As a Christian wedding, the ceremony included an opening prayer, the bride's and groom's march, appropriate scripture readings, wonderful melodious songs, wedding messages, the solemnization, testimony from the bride and groom, felicitations, prayers, and a sumptuous feast. But more than the feast, the “Pentecostal wedding” messages are what linger in my mind.

The guest speaker, clearly from a Pentecostal Church, delivered a powerful biblical message, addressing the couple getting wedded and inviting every participant to believe in the gospel and prepare for the wedding feast of Christ, the groom, in heaven. For Pentecostals, Brethren, and Baptists in Kerala, this is often a last resort to share the gospel with everyone present, including those from ‘community churches” or even non-churchgoers. With attendees from various faith backgrounds, often close to the marrying couple or the deceased’s family, why miss the opportunity to evangelize? The preacher did a wonderful job, delivering his message with vigor, fervor, and scriptural knowledge. He didn’t drag it on, so the spellbound audience in the hall sighed with relief, and even those who had stepped out for a break returned.

Next came the solemnization of the marriage as announced by the MC. The solemnizer, began with a keynote and opening remarks, stating he wanted to share "a couple of things" with the couple. Being a theological graduate connected to a theological institution and with a personal ministry of spreading the word, he started off. The "couple of things" quickly turned into scores of biblical texts, stretching into another Evangelistic message for the next 45 minutes. What the wedding speaker missed should have been covered by the solemnizing pastor! Fortunately, there was no altar call, avoiding confusion among the guests from varied church and faith backgrounds.

During these hours, it was easy to forget the bride and groom seated on the stage, facing the crowd. Fortunately, both the official and unofficial speakers occasionally addressed them and the crowd.

As is common, Pentecostals in Kerala do not wear gold, so there was no exchange of wedding rings or tying of the wedlock string during the ceremony. They may quote the marriage stories from Abraham to Jacob but conveniently avoid the mention of wedding ring. Instead, the bridegroom holding the bride's hands symbolizes the wedding covenant. (In patriarchal times, making a contract often involved placing a hand under the other’s thigh.) Though the marriages are considered to be conducted in heaven and solemnized before a crowd, they must still be registered at a Registrar’s office in the local Panchayat or Municipality. Pentecostals, like others, must follow the rule of law for various reasons, including securing a passport or visa. Thus, the wedding ring holds no place in the ceremony.

Now, the climax and paradox of this identity crisis in Pentecostal weddings somehow crept into the back page of the art paper-color-printed, 8-page booklet shared for the wedding service. It reads:

“The prince who bought his bride at a supreme price and presented her with his signet ring has gone to prepare an eternal place for her…” (translated from Malayalam). The original Malayalam content is available but not inserted here.  

Conclusion: As the wedding drew to a close, the subtle paradox of Pentecostal practice came to light—a ceremony that firmly omitted the exchange of wedding rings, a widely accepted symbol of marital unity, yet followed every protocol required by the law of the land. While the absence of the ring was a conscious theological choice, rooted in the rejection of gold and worldly adornments, the marriage was still bound by civil requirements like registration, ensuring conformity to societal norms. This contrast of avoiding one symbol while adhering to legal mandates reflects the delicate balance Pentecostals navigate—honoring their convictions while ensuring the ceremony satisfies both tradition and external expectations. Ultimately, this wedding served as a powerful reminder of the tension between personal faith and public conformity, highlighting how deeply belief shapes even the most joyful of life’s milestones.

Beyond the Incubator

The Hen, Eggs, and the Chicks

Philipose Vaidyar

Eggs laid by a chicken can be incubated using advanced technology, but can a robotic hen replicate the warmth, protection, and instinctual care of a mother hen? Technology may manage to hatch the eggs, but can it nurture life? Can a robotic caregiver replace the gentle clucks, soft wings, and devoted attention of a mother hen, or will the chicks grow up missing the essential nourishment of her love? Can artificial intelligence "truly mother"?

Mentoring Vs. Parental Influence:

Mentors and parents serve different but complementary roles in an individual's development. Parents typically provide the foundational care, support, and values that shape a person’s early life. They are responsible for the nurturing and basic guidance required for growth. On the other hand, mentors provide specialized guidance, knowledge, and support that can influence a person's professional, academic, or spiritual development.

Mentors often come into an individual's life at a stage when they are seeking direction or looking to deepen their skills or understanding in a specific area. While a mentor can have a profound impact, especially in a specific domain, the influence of parents in terms of shaping one’s character and foundational values is irreplaceable.

Mentorship and Discipleship:

Mentorship involves providing guidance, advice, and support based on experience and expertise. Discipleship, particularly in a Christian context, refers to a deeper, more personal commitment to spiritual growth and following the teachings of a faith. Discipleship often involves a mentor who helps guide someone in their faith journey, similar to how Paul mentored Timothy.

In the New Testament, Paul’s relationship with Timothy was one of mentorship and discipleship. Paul took on a significant role in guiding Timothy’s spiritual and personal development. However, Paul was careful not to claim all the credit for Timothy’s growth. Instead, he acknowledged the role of Timothy’s upbringing and the influence of his mother and grandmother in his faith journey. Paul writes in 2 Timothy 1:5, “I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.”

Claiming Credit in Mentorship:

Mentors, like Paul, should recognize that their role is part of a broader context of support and influence. While a mentor can provide valuable guidance and contribute significantly to an individual's growth, the credit for one’s development is often shared among various influences, including family, previous mentors, personal experiences, and divine guidance.

The Irony of Guidance

A counselor, once revered for his wisdom, confidently directs individuals and families, claiming to possess the answers to life's complexities. Yet, years later, his own life unravels, revealing a trail of failed relationships, misguided choices, and shattered dreams. The very people who trusted his counsel are left to deal with the fallout of his flawed advice, picking up the pieces of their shattered lives. 

But can those who boast of their expertise, like the counselor, genuinely replicate the unwavering guidance and unconditional love of a mother? Will their attempts to replace her wisdom with technology and innovation ultimately fall short?

A Beautiful and Poignant Tribute to Mothers

A mother's love, sacrifice, and devotion are unparalleled and cannot be replaced by academic degrees, technological expertise, or material wealth. Her wisdom, gained through experience and intuition, is invaluable for nurturing life. No amount of education or technological skill can substitute for the selfless care, emotional intelligence, and unwavering support that a mother provides. Her role is divine, and her impact on a person's life is immeasurable.

The complexity and beauty of human life, shaped by a mother's love, stand as a testament to the wonders of creation. Motherhood is a profound expression of love and devotion, and the wisdom and sacrifices of mothers deserve our deepest appreciation, respect, and celebration.

Often, a mother's unwavering dedication goes unappreciated. She nurtures, supports, and sacrifices for her children, shaping their every step, decision, and dream. As the children grow, they may dismiss her wisdom, deeming it old-fashioned and uneducated. They forget that her love and devotion paved the way for their success, and that her guidance was born from experience, not just textbooks.

The irony is palpable: the counselor, once esteemed, proves fallible, while the mother, often taken for granted, remains a constant source of love and guidance. Her wisdom may not be bound in books or certified by degrees, but it is rooted in the depths of her heart, tempered by trials and tribulations.

Who can advise God, the creator?  As Proverbs reminds us:

• "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction." (Proverbs 1:7)
• "Listen to your father, who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old." (Proverbs 23:22)

The Tailpiece

Will we discard our parents like worn-out shoes, deeming them burdensome and outdated? Do we forget that their love and devotion are the very foundations upon which we stand? Or will we recognize the value of their wisdom, earned through a lifetime of struggles and triumphs?

True guidance comes from the heart, not just credentials or expertise. Our parents may not have degrees or tributes, but their love and dedication make them the wisest mentors we'll ever know. Let us cherish their counsel, honor their sacrifices, and acknowledge the depth of their wisdom. Ultimately, it is not the counselor's advice that shapes our destiny, but the love and guidance of those who have been with us from the beginning.

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The Perils of Publicizing Private Lives

 Philipose Vaidyar

“There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known. What you have said in the dark will be heard in the daylight, and what you have whispered in the ear in the inner rooms will be proclaimed from the roofs”.

In Luke 12:2-3, Jesus teaches about the inevitable revelation of truth and the importance of living with integrity. He emphasizes that hidden things will ultimately come to light, urging accountability before God and authenticity in both speech and actions. This passage challenges hypocrisy, encouraging his followers to align their private lives with their public witness for God's truth.

I would like to draw attention to a potential paradox or a misapplication that some may mistakenly imply when moving away from the context of this verse. We don't need to disclose everything that requires protection, nor proclaim everything from rooftops that should be whispered in inner rooms. Today, climbing onto terraces or scaling roofs is unnecessary. Broadcasting has become incredibly easy and accessible, right at our fingertips.

In today's digital era, social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram have facilitated the pervasive sharing of personal moments with a broad audience, most often with strangers. While this may seem inoffensive, it warrants critical examination due to its potential pitfalls and dangers. This reflection explores the repercussions of broadcasting private lives to the world.

In the bustling digital scenery, where every keystroke can ignite a virtual firework, our ability to discern what to share resembles the delicate art of tending a garden—carefully choosing what blooms for public view and what thrives in the intimate shrine of personal connection.

Trying to fit flowers and fruits onto our plants for temporary admiration is like ornamenting them for a brief moment. The truth is, that such superficial enhancements will quickly fade, exposing their artificiality. Instead, true beauty in plants comes from within, growing organically and authentically. Just as plants naturally blossom and bear fruit, our actions and expressions should stem from genuine intentions and inner growth, rather than being artificially crafted to please onlookers for a brief moment. This principle emphasizes the value of authenticity and integrity in everything we do, emphasizing the importance of nurturing genuine qualities that endure beyond superficial appearances.

In today's world, most people can instantly publicize and broadcast anything they choose, thanks to smart devices that can publish content at the touch of a button. However, amidst this freedom, it's crucial to consider who is observing and listening to what we share. What are our intentions and objectives when we decide to communicate publicly? Our words and actions should not resemble fireworks shot into the air for fleeting joy; rather, they should be purposeful and targeted. When it comes to our private lives and personal moments, discretion is dominant—they should be shared personally, decisively, sensibly, and with intelligence, directed only to those who genuinely need to know.

For instance, celebrating and expressing affection for loved ones, like wishing your wife a happy birthday or showing love to family members, can be more meaningful when done in intimate settings (by Face-look) rather than on public platforms like Facebook. The complexities of personal relationships and sentiments often lose their authenticity when displayed for the world to see. It's a reminder that not every aspect of our lives needs to be shared widely; some moments are sacred and best kept within the sphere of those directly involved.

Moreover, using social media platforms under the assumption that every detail of our lives permits public consumption can lead to a misguided sense of importance. It's crucial to remember that our updates and posts are not like divine proclamations about the world or ourselves; rather, they are personal expressions that require thoughtful consideration before sharing.

This requires wisdom and discernment—to know what should be openly discussed, what should remain private, and what should be shared only selectively and appropriately.

In essence, the ability to broadcast instantly carries with it a responsibility to handle our communication wisely. Just as one carefully selects what to burn, bury, or broadcast in physical life, the same discernment should be applied to our digital presence. This metaphor highlights the importance of thoughtful consideration in how we direct the intersection of personal privacy and public sharing in the digital age.

The Illusion of Connection is one major concern. People often share personal details on social media seeking validation and a sense of being seen. However, this connection is often superficial, relying on likes and comments that do not substitute genuine human interaction or foster meaningful relationships. Instead, they can foster a culture of self-admiration, where self-worth is tied to online approval rather than personal growth and connection.

Moreover, the Erosion of Privacy is a significant issue. Every post and update contributes to a digital footprint that can be exploited. From targeted advertising to potential security breaches, sharing personal information online can have far-reaching consequences. It compromises our ability to maintain boundaries and protect ourselves from malicious intent, affecting both personal and professional aspects of life.

Oversharing on social media also poses various risks:

1.     Security Risks: Details about one's location and daily routines can make individuals vulnerable to identity theft, stalking, or burglary.

2.     Emotional Vulnerability: Sharing personal struggles and intimate moments online can leave individuals emotionally exposed to negative feedback and trolling, impacting mental health.

3.     Professional Repercussions: Employers often scrutinize social media profiles, and posts deemed inappropriate can harm career prospects, demonstrating the need for discretion and discernment in what we choose to share.

The Cult of Self-admiration perpetuated by social media promotes a self-centered approach to life, prioritizing validation and image over authenticity and humility. This can lead to a distorted view of reality, where individuals present idealized versions of their lives while grappling with feelings of inadequacy and anxiety behind the screen.

Observations consistently reveal the harmful effects of excessive social media use on mental health, leading to stress and burnout as individuals pursue an unrealistic standard of perfection. Thus, privacy becomes essential for protecting mental well-being and fostering authentic relationships outside the demands of public scrutiny.

Conclusion

While social media offers a platform for self-expression and connection, it comes with significant risks. Rather than yielding to the attraction of instant validation, we should heed the wisdom of preserving what is sacred and exercising discretion in our online presence. As Proverbs advises, guarding our pearls from being trampled requires discernment and a commitment to authenticity in our interactions, both online and offline.

"Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces”. Mathew 7:6

Like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion. The desire of the righteous ends only in good, but the hope of the wicked only in wrath." (Proverbs 11:22-23)

A Doctor's Heart: Embracing Humanity in Healthcare

Exploring the Depths of Doctor-Patient Relationships

As Patients meet doctors, Doctors' patience meets patients!

Explore with me a couple of heartfelt narratives within the healthcare domain, where every person's story carries the essence of empathy, healing to the mind, and wellness to the soul. These tales unveil the human side of medicine, showcasing resilience, kindness, and the profound power of compassion. They serve as gentle reminders of the interconnectedness that enriches our shared human experience.

Doctors hold a revered place in society. When we fall ill, we turn to them, placing our trust in their expertise to heal our bodies and soothe our minds. They bear the immense responsibility of restoring health and hope to those shattered by illness. Yet, the medical field is not without its imperfections. Misunderstandings can arise, especially when treatments don't yield the desired outcomes, sometimes leading to frustration and grief. In some unfortunate instances, the focus shifts from patient care to profit, further straining the delicate doctor-patient relationship. However, amidst this complexity, there are doctors whose unwavering dedication, kindness, and compassion shine brightly, restoring our faith in the goodness of humanity.

A Journey Through the Shadows of Exploitation

About 28 years ago, when awareness of learning disabilities was not widespread, I was seeking an assessment for our son during his primary school years. I was diligently researching and learning about the subject. During this time, a doctor in the town guided me to his doctor-relative in Bangalore who claimed to have some wonderful experience, who offered to help. However, instead of providing clear insights, he seemed more interested in making us his permanent clients. Despite this, I was lucky enough to find the information and help we needed by being proactive and willing to learn. Along the way, I encountered more businessmen exploiting the field for their benefit than genuinely helping the needy.

While in Hyderabad, I explored more for a better consultation. This super specialist doctor ran an NGO to consult, train, and rehabilitate people with special needs, in addition to his practice, and he had accreditations and funding from the WHO. He prescribed some medicines, and the next door led me to the pharmacist. He offered two options: Option A was medicines worth a thousand, and Option B was double the price. My inquisitiveness and critical mind became alert. To query this, I went back to the doctor for explanations. He had no qualms in explaining: he said it was like train coaches—First class, Second class, 3rd AC, and the sleeper compartment. If you can afford it, you can buy this; if not, the other one.

To my luck, I found a door between the two, a passage through which I could slip along with my son before seeing the pharmacist once again. Later, I learned that he was testing new medicines for patents. I befriended more people there, and my interactions with them revealed that there was an underworld there with deaths, fundraising, and manipulation. There are a few more places I came across in different areas in my quest to find coping mechanisms for our need. Now, the focus is not on those who lead you into darkness but on those who are kind and can kindle light. Not all doctors are the same. Let me share stories of two other doctors whose professionalism and friendliness either blended or contrasted.

ONE: The Stoic Specialist

Recently, our son made an appointment for me to meet a doctor (Dr.RK). That experience of the consultation, I will keep for the end.  

After a month, I went to meet another senior doctor, whom we will call Dr. EK, in a specialty hospital. (This was for a special test as suggested by Dr. RK). 

I awaited my turn on the examination table. As the previous patient left, Dr. EK approached me.

"Why have you come to meet me?" he asked brusquely. I began to explain my referral, attempting to hand over the preliminary test results and referral letter.

"I don't want to see all these, tell me your problem," he interrupted.

Despite his initial abruptness, Dr. EK's demeanor softened as he examined me and reviewed my reports. He asked detailed questions, made calculations, and ordered several tests. "This is a serious condition; you cannot ignore this," he declared, explaining the necessary procedures.

Although his manner was stern, Dr. EK's competence and thoroughness reassured me of his expertise. Yet, I couldn't help but wonder if another doctor might have been more patient-friendly. This thought led me back to Dr. RK, whose initial diagnosis had aligned with Dr. EK's. It is time to talk about him.

TWO: The Compassionate Doctor

Dr. RK is one of the most senior-friendly doctors I have ever encountered. Despite being an MD in General Medicine, his approach was nothing short of extraordinary. During my first consultation, he conducted initial tests and noted some concerns. He explained these issues to me with genuine care and compassion, suggesting another quick scan.

Dr. RK accompanied me to the testing room, engaging respectfully with the technician, making me assume the technician was a fellow doctor due to the respect and friendliness he showed. After the scan, he led me back to his consulting room and detailed the next steps. Knowing I was traveling the next day, he advised me to visit a hospital near my hometown for further tests and emphasized keeping my blood pressure under control.

He walked me out of his chamber, instructed a technician to prepare a brief referral with his findings, and waved goodbye before heading off to visit patients in the ward. Intrigued by his humility and warmth, I later searched for more information about him online and discovered his impressive profile.

The Profile and the 'Patience' 

Dr. RK, BSc, MBBS, MD (General Medicine), is a distinguished medical professional with a rich tapestry of experience spanning over three decades. He has held the prestigious positions of Director and Consultant in Medicine at Military Hospitals in Jaipur and Shillong, demonstrating his leadership and expertise. His tenure as a Senior Adviser in Medicine and Non-Invasive Cardiologist at the Department of Cardiology, Military Hospital Secunderabad, highlights his specialization in cardiology and commitment to patient care. Since 1990, Dr. RK has been a consultant in Medicine at numerous zonal hospitals of the Armed Forces, showcasing his versatility and dedication. His role as Senior Consultant Medicine at a prominent hospital in [City] further exemplifies his extensive knowledge and experience.

In addition to his clinical prowess, Dr. RK has made significant contributions to medical education. With over five years of teaching experience in Internal Medicine at Army Hospital, Delhi, and Military Hospital, Jabalpur, and as a Reader in the Department of General Medicine at the Army College of Dental Sciences, Secunderabad, he has mentored countless medical students and young doctors.

Dr. RK's exemplary service has been recognized with numerous awards, including the Chief of Army Staff Commendation Card in 2006 and the GOC-in-C, Eastern Command Commendation Card in 2007. His professional affiliations as a life member of the Association of Physicians of India, the Indian Society of Electrocardiography, and the [City] Diabetic Club, reflect his commitment to staying at the forefront of medical advancements.

With a special interest in critical care, emergencies, and cardio diabetology, Dr. RK continues to make significant contributions to the field of medicine, ensuring the highest standards of care for his patients.

Dr. RK is incredibly kind and caring towards everyone. He takes the time to explain things personally and goes above and beyond by accompanying patients during tests. His respect for all staff, including technicians, is impressive. His extensive experience, awards, teaching background, and professional memberships demonstrate his dedication and expertise in critical care.

Conclusion: Embracing the Human Touch in Healthcare

These last two stories show that doctors are not just professionals but people too, with feelings and challenges. Some doctors, like Dr. RK, show incredible care and understanding, while others may struggle with communication.

The key takeaway is that good communication and empathy are vital in healthcare. By listening to patients and treating them with respect, doctors can create better experiences and outcomes. We must continue to promote a culture of empathy and collaboration in healthcare. By doing so, we can build stronger relationships between patients and doctors and improve overall care for everyone.

 

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Do not Eat-Fast

#FastOrFeast

When God created the world, He declared everything He made to be good (Genesis 1). This includes all food sources, as Peter later learned in a vision.  In the vision, God showed Peter a wide variety of animals and reptiles and instructed him to eat, indicating that all creatures are clean and acceptable for human consumption. However, this doesn't necessarily mean it's healthy or wise to eat everything available. While God has provided an abundance of food, moderation, self-control, and wisdom are still essential in our choices.

The Bible teaches moderation and self-control in all aspects of life, including eating. Gluttony is considered a sin in the Bible, as it involves excessive indulgence in food or drink, leading to harm to one's body and relationships with God and others.

In the Bible, gluttony is mentioned alongside other vices, such as drunkenness and lust, in passages like:

- Proverbs 23:20-21: "Do not join those who drink too much wine or gorge themselves on meat, for drunkards and gluttons become poor, and drowsiness clothes them in rags."

- 1 Corinthians 6:19-20: "You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your bodies."

The Bible also teaches the importance of self-control and moderation in all aspects of life, including eating:

- Philippians 4:12: "I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well-fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want."

- 1 Corinthians 9:27: "I discipline my body and bring it under strict control, so that, after having preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified."

Regarding cravings for food, the Bible acknowledges that humans have natural desires and appetites, but encourages us to control them:

- 1 Peter 2:11: "Dear friends, I urge you, as foreigners and exiles, to abstain from sinful desires, which wage war against your soul."

- Romans 8:13: "For if you live according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live."

While the Bible does not condemn eating or enjoying food, it warns against excessive indulgence, which can lead to harm to our bodies and relationships with God and others. Overeating and gluttony can be seen as sinful, as they involve a lack of self-control and a focus on temporal pleasures rather than eternal spiritual growth.

Some Bible verses that address the consequences of overeating and gluttony include:

- Proverbs 28:7: "A discerning son keeps wisdom in view, but a glutton is a disgrace to his father."

- Deuteronomy 32:15: "Jeshurun grew fat and kicked; you grew fat, stout, and gross. They abandoned the God who made them and rejected the Rock their Savior."

Remember that the Bible encourages balance, moderation, and self-control in all aspects of life, including eating. While food is a gift from God, excessive indulgence can lead to harm and distract us from our relationship with Him.

#BookOnGluttony

"Gluttony, a sin often overlooked, is the uncontrolled indulgence in food. But what exactly is gluttony? Is it a sin? Are all overweight individuals gluttons, and are all underweight individuals free from it?

Professor Z.T. Fomum's book, "Deliverance from the Sin of Gluttony," offers a biblical perspective on this sensitive topic, exploring its definition, possible causes, and the path to recognition, repentance, and deliverance. This book provides a roadmap for establishing a healthy relationship with food and God.

A must-read for parents, pastors, youth leaders, counselors, and anyone seeking a deeper understanding of gluttony, this book addresses common questions and provides biblical insights to help readers overcome this sin and develop a balanced approach to eating.

Strength in Sickness

Faith in Action in Times of Trial

Philipose Vaidyar

A sickness, even as small as a headache, can disrupt the rhythm of life and turn the plans of a family upside down. The physical struggles are only the beginning; the emotional and psychological burdens can weigh heavily on each member of the family, especially the children, who may not fully express their pain and confusion. The effects of illness vary greatly among individuals, influenced by their emotional, mental, and physical strength, as well as their faith and trust in God.

As we gather our thoughts and hearts in this moment of reflection, let us consider the profound impact of sickness or other incidents on our lives.

In these times of trial, our faith and confidence in the Almighty God, who skillfully designed our inmost being, can make a world of difference. We may find ourselves asking, "Why, Lord? How long, Lord?" But it is precisely in these moments that we must exercise our faith and place our dependence not on our strength alone, but on God, the Creator, who offers solace to our souls.

Let us draw strength from the Word of God and find renewal in His promises:

Psalm 139:13-14: "For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well."

Read and meditate on the entire Psalm, surrendering to the surpassing knowledge, presence, and potential of our Sovereign God.

This Psalm reminds us of God's intimate knowledge and unwavering presence in our lives, especially during times of illness and struggle.

1. God Knows Us Completely and Intimately:

"O Lord, you have searched me and known me" (Psalm 139:1). God knows every thought, every action, and every word we will speak before it is even on our tongue. In moments of pain and uncertainty, remember that God understands your suffering and walks with you through it.

2. God is Always With Us:

"Where shall I go from your Spirit? Or where shall I flee from your presence?" (Psalm 139:7). There is no place so dark or so distant that God cannot reach us. His presence surrounds us, providing comfort and strength even in the most challenging times.

3. God Has Created Us Wonderfully:

“For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made" (Psalm 139:13-14). Even as we face physical ailments, let us remember that we are beautifully and purposefully created by God. Our bodies, with all their complexities, are a testament to His incredible workmanship.

4. God's Thoughts Toward Us are Precious:

"How precious to me are your thoughts, O God! How vast is the sum of them!" (Psalm 139:17). In times of sickness, it is easy to feel forgotten or insignificant. Yet, God's thoughts toward us are precious and numerous. He cares deeply for each of us, and His plans for us are filled with love.

5. A Prayer for Guidance and Purity:

"Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting" (Psalm 139:23-24). Let this be our prayer in times of distress, asking God to search our hearts, guide our thoughts, and lead us toward His eternal path.

In times of sickness or any bad incidents when our faith is tested, let us cling to these truths. We are known, we are loved, and we are never alone. Trust in God's presence and His power to heal and sustain you. Let His Word be your source of strength and comfort, revitalizing your faith as you navigate the challenges ahead.

May you find peace in knowing that the Almighty God, who created you so wonderfully, is with you always, sustaining you and restoring you with His boundless love and grace.

Coming back to the point of sicknesses that we go through, here are three verses that still can challenge us to be humble and regard the poor, weak, and the needy for which healing, deliverance, and restoration are the reward:

Psalm 41:1-3: "Blessed are those who have regard for the weak; the LORD delivers them in times of trouble. The LORD protects and preserves them—they are counted among the blessed in the land—he does not give them over to the desire of their foes. The LORD sustains them on their sickbed and restores them from their bed of illness."

When we regard the weak, the Lord…..

1. Delivers us in times of trouble.
2. Protects and preserves us.
3. Blesses us and counts us among the blessed in the land.
4. Does not give us over to the desire of our foes.
5. Sustains us on our sickbed.
6. Restores us from our bed of illness.

In our moments of weakness and uncertainty, let us remember these promises and find strength in our faith. May we continue to trust in the Lord, knowing He is with us, sustaining and restoring us. Let us meditate on His Word and find peace in His unending love and care. 

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 Your calls and conversations are recorded!

You're upset, angry, and emotionally charged as you speak with a customer care executive. Your frustrations lead you to defend your stand vigorously. Meanwhile, the executive remains composed, offering apologies and expressing regret for the inconvenience you've faced. Yet, your agitation persists as you continue questioning the company about the issue or deal. Despite this, the executive's voice remains calm and polite, showing willingness to listen and promising to resolve your problem. This dynamic raises the question: why does the executive maintain this calm and understanding attitude?

Firstly, it's part of their job to handle such interactions professionally and courteously. Secondly, knowing that the call is being recorded for evaluation purposes, they understand the importance of maintaining a respectful and helpful demeanor, regardless of the customer's tone or mood.

This situation reflects a broader truth about accountability and the power of words. The Bible verses from Philippians 1:27 and Matthew 12:36 highlight the significance of our words and actions. They remind us that every word we speak carries weight and that we will be held accountable for our speech and behavior.

In essence, whether it's in customer service or everyday life, our conversations and interactions should reflect integrity, kindness, and consideration. Our words have the power to build up or tear down, and it's important to use them wisely, knowing that they can have lasting consequences.

"Here are a few excerpts from the Word, the timeless wisdom that illuminates our paths and nourishes our souls:

Savouring Wisdom in conversations

"Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone." (Colossians 4:6)

Accountable Conversations

“You brood of vipers, how can you who are evil say anything good? For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him. But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken. For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.” (Matthew 12:36)

“For the stone will cry out from the wall, and the beam from the woodwork respond.” (Habakkuk 2:11)

Tailpiece: In this season, the air is thick with promises, floating like balloons in the sky. But soon, they burst and vanish, leaving behind only the echoes of broken dreams. So Intercede and Persevere in Intercession.

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