Thursday, April 17, 2025

Little Teachers of Big Truths

 A Journey Into the World of Children

There’s something quietly profound about children. Raised under the same roof, spoken to with the same love, nurtured with the same care, they emerge as uniquely hand-crafted masterpieces shaped by God’s creative delight.

Take Mike, for instance. He’s just entering Upper Kindergarten, but his dreams already soar beyond the clouds. He wants to be a scientist (to explore the unknown), a Zoom director (to host the world), and a chef (to serve up tastes no one has imagined). His current passion? Mixing watermelon juice with passion fruit and a swirl of vanilla ice cream, topped with a dash of salt and pepper. He calls it his “superpower juice.” It may sound wild, but in his imaginative experiments, we glimpse vision, joy, and the beginning of something brilliant.

Then there’s Jude, his three-year-old brother. While most children bounce from one thing to the next, Jude is a little storm of focus, steadily completing puzzles, tidying up after play, and helping his parents with loyalty far beyond his age. He evaluates everything with a simple thumbs-up or thoughtful thumbs-down. When he struggled to pronounce my name, he began calling me “Philos uncle,” a name that caught on and warmed our hearts. One day, eyes searching mine, he asked, “Uncle, are you done with me?” I still wonder what stirred that question, but it touched something deep.

Their elder sister Lia has grown quieter lately, perhaps a sign that she’s growing deeper into herself. But her silence carries a kind of grace. She still shares in every fun moment in her own calm, beautiful way. She watches, smiles, and joins—never loud, yet never left behind.

Children mimic, yes—but more than that, they invent. They callify and pokify the world around them. A mosquito becomes a flying friend, and a beetle turns into a character. They speak in private rhymes and splash water like it's an Olympic event. They demand with raw honesty, but then surprise you with empathy that takes your breath away.

Even a pile of stones becomes a playground of meaning.

Three River Days

Our first visit was to a gentle stream, where the stones were smooth and round, perfectly safe for play. Mike collected a heap of them, attempting a tower, proud of what he managed. At the end, we carried a few stones home. The next day, I asked him what we should do differently on our next river trip. He replied, “We can take these stones back and bring new ones.” I first assumed it came from a school library idea—but perhaps, just perhaps, it came from his early thoughts about recycling and renewal. What a lovely way to care about things as small as stones and as vast as rivers.

Our next trip took us to a waterfall 30 kilometers away, but summer had thinned it into gentle streams. We were allowed to explore the natural rock pools carved by rushing waters over time. The children were delighted. Mike joined me to water some plants nearby, and suddenly exclaimed, “Uncle, those pipes are entangled!” His observation—loud, clear, and accurate—was full of delight and discovery.

Our final outing was to yet another river, chosen entirely because of the children’s ongoing fascination with water. And rightly so—children love water. So do adults. But as parents and caregivers, we must remember that water bodies, while beautiful, are also risky. Even environments that seem safe, like calm streams or rivers with smooth stones, can hide unseen hazards.

Mike, on the last day, learned this in a way none of us expected. While getting out of the water, walking on what looked like soft, rounded stones beneath the surface, he stepped on something sharp. It was only later in the evening that we noticed a clean but deep cut under his little toe. A possible broken edge of a stone had done it. The warning was clear: even in the safest-seeming places, vulnerability is real.

So, let us scout our spots well in advance. Let us never take for granted the calm face of nature. A puddle, a pool, or even a bucket of water can turn risky in a moment. Educate children. Train them. And above all, stay watchful as they play. Let them enjoy—but safely, wisely, and with guidance.

Children don’t just live life.
They celebrate it.
They don’t wait for joy—they are joy itself.

And no wonder—Jesus once looked into the eyes of children and said something eternally powerful:

“Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:3)

Let that settle in.
To follow Jesus is to rediscover wonder.
To kneel low enough to see the world from a child’s view.
To laugh more, imagine wildly, forgive quickly, and believe without complication.

Welcoming a child is not just an act of kindness.
It’s a doorway into heaven’s own rhythm.

Let us not rush past them.
Let us listen, learn, and lean into the wisdom of their little hearts.
For in their world of wonder, we just might find our way home.

We’re grateful this precious family of five made the choice to visit us in Nilambur, exploring this place for the first time. Thank God for their drop-in. There’s more to discover here, and we hope they’ll return—with new experiments, fresh laughter, and a continued invitation to joy.